In the midst of doing her PhD in a highly competitive country, breaking her head trying to get some breakthrough in research, having a mother with terminal cancer and complications from treatment who's 200miles away, down with flu, and told by doctors that her first and only 6-moth-old niece has 50% of brain damage very recently.
How can one have so much in her plate at one time.
For the past 1 year, she has been so worn out, trying to travel 200 miles almost every alternate weekend to take care of her mother, taking leaves at times, and work extra hard after that to compensate for her absence. There were many nights when i called her up she was still in her lab..She has stacks of story books that she always wanted to read but have no time to, and so many film festivals missed. she takes it with grace.
Now, the cute chubby 6 month old niece, who was perfectly well and develop normally before, found lethargic and floppy few days back while under baby sitter's care. Her eyes are no longer focus, and had what i suspected was status epilepticus, which qualified her for ICU. She was told by her sister that the doctor was telling them the MRI showed 50% of brain damage..Her sister and brother in law are broken hearted, worried and lost. So is my bestest and closest friend.
It was all picture-perfect not long ago. A nice loving young couple, doing well at work, with a new house and the first baby. Then the cancer. Everyone are trying hard to cope, and then this.
I had a shudder thinking of what will happen to this baby, her prognosis and the impact to the family. I wish the doctor handling this will be kind to them. I wish i was there for them, i wish i can do more. More than just praying for her and her family and the baby.
She asked me why. I just hope she takes care of herself and hang in there. Be strong. My heart ache for her.
I wish she would open the bible.